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Wednesday, September 8, 2010

labor day

For labor day weekend we spent the weekend with my parents and some great family friends up at Pineview. We spent all weekend on the lake. We had 2 boats and my parents rented a waverunner. We had such a great time. I love spending time with my family and friends and its so much fun being able to make these memories with my husband. It was such an amazing weekend and definitely much needed. During the week I had 3 interviews for 3 different jobs. I was offered one job and am still waiting to hear back from the other 2. I am so grateful that things are now falling into place for me. I have hated not having a job and not being able to contribute anything. But now things are starting to look up and we could not be more happy.

It was so nice to get away from Salt Lake and to just forget all the drama that has been going on in the last month. We've had drama from work, family and friends. It's all getting to be too much. But from all of this drama we have learned a lot about ourselves and have learned how strong we are as a couple and as people. We are learning what kind of people we want in our lives and learning how to treat people. We are also learning what we need to do to better our lives for our future. We've learned that what we do now in work, family and friends doesn't only affect us now, but it will affect us in the future. We have learned that to better our lives we have to work harder at work, and we also have to figure out who we want in our lives.

Marriage is not easy. And its not easy trying to keep people in your life when you're married. But the people who care the most about you will work with you and understand that your life is so much more complicated now and its not just you now. You also have this other person who has their life, and now we're blending our 2 lives together to make one life. Its not easy but its definitely worth it. I'm sorry if I've hurt anyone or offended anyone. I didnt mean to. My life is not as easy as it was and I'm trying to figure things out. I am done with drama now. I cant take it and so if you have drama please try to not bring me into it. I've learned that drama is not something that we need in our lives. It doesn't make us any better to start things. So this is my end to drama. I am turning over a new leaf. I will not be spreading things about people. I will not be putting people I love down. I want to treat people the way that I want to be treated.

1 comment:

  1. I love it! You couldnt have said this better Allie. I love you girl and I know our awesome 6 will always stick by each other!

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